Before we start of, we do want to acknowledge the overwhelm of advice you get pre baby being born and post baby being born. It can become extremely upsetting having varies advice thrown at us that we haven't asked for, and it makes motherhood that much harder. We just want to say we have been there, and it can be really tough. Parenthood is different for everyone, and quite often it is more than we can ever be ready for. Some things you can only really learn by living them. I